Why this Discrimination against Girls?


I have a general question. Ladies is facing plenty of problems in life from childhood. Gents are also facing but less compared to ladies.

From childhood a girl should be safe in all areas of life. If married responsibilities increases.

Also, hearing bad words under circumstances, if marriage is delayed, child-birth is delayed. Society will say that a girl is unlucky.

I have said only examples and many more are there. For example, at the age of 45 also a boy is married as a first marriage / second marriage. But, in case of ladies how many are ready to marry a girl at the age of 45, for the same first marriage/second marriage.

Is it a curse to be born as a girl? Girls are equal to boys and studying well, earning etc. But, in particular cases enjoying less freedom in the society, compared to boys.

Just remembering these words of Mahatma Gandhi: “We get full independence only when a girl can walk in the midnight wearing plenty of jewels and safe in all aspects”.

After so many years of independence also it has not been fulfilled. Tomorrow is an Independence Day (for India) and hence this question.


Thank you.

Why should I see and feel sorry for the problems? Or why don’t I see the good in the same society and feel happy.

Whatever is happening in the world is just an event. We judge any event by categorizing it as bad or good.

We are not taught to see good in bad too.

When anything happens to our dislike or when anything disturbs our peace, fill up that event with love by just chanting “FORGIVE LOVE THANK TOGETHER BE DIVINE”.

Forgiving the person will make you think that every person is directed by the Divine will. If every person is directed by God, why should I meddle with the divine will? I extend my love to him. If I can send the energy of love from the heart which is open because of forgiveness, I thank the Divine for this revelation – new thinking.

Thanking any person – a state of gratitude – unites your mind with the Divine. You will BE one with the Divine flow – TOGETHER BE DIVINE and be blessed.

About Elsol

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 11 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

Posted on September 24, 2012, in Affirmations, Forgiveness, Life, SwitchWord. Bookmark the permalink. 9 Comments.

  1. Dear Naran,

    Will doing what you have told us create a situation whereby girls are safe in all aspects?

    Thank you for your time.

  2. Grace,
    That is a different question. Different answer. You cannot create any situation. You can handle a situation as per the requirement. Nobody including men can be safe in all aspects.
    When there is fear of something handle that situation. If the question is asked pertaining to a situation one is facing, i will give solution to handle that situation.

  3. Okay. thank you for your response. I understand it better now.

  4. sir,m interested in being a part of an organisation which is recently started (3-4 days)by a person whom i dont know so closely..m planning to approach her..please guide me thru so that the person is impressed by me n gives me a top position in the organisaton…with a very good pay….though it was my field of study (biotechnology) i have been working in software field all these years…(3yrs)…please help me acheive this dream of mine….

    There are very few ppl in the company since it recently started…n they need more….the organisation is started by three post graduates n i too want to be in the top level n contribute for the growth..m really interested in it..please help me sir….with no trouble she shud accept me n give me a good place…i want her to feel tat if m given an opportunity ill excel….pls sir

  5. R,

  6. Sir,wat do i chant to get positve response from people?
    i want to be one among the 4 who willl be selected…

  7. r,
    CHANT gentian larch wildrose

  8. My son is 10 th Std. He is not talented perform in the class. He is not study well.He is not rembarer any lesson in the class. His focus try to everday subject. Pls u teach me & quide I wish my try my son life is change.

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